I feel gutted. One of the guys I look after on Saturdays was killed by being run over by one of the other guys I look after (read article here). He was only 22 with two young kids. He was telling me last Saturday how excited he was, as he was having his kids this last week.
It re-reminds me about the debate over whether God has a destiny for your life. David Allis wrote in our discussion group
There is no biblical basis for 'god having a specific plan for your life' - all that is in the bible is indications god wants you to do well, be blessed (so you can bless others), live a holy life, serve his kingdom etc
to read the rest of what he wrote you need to join the discussion group I'm afraid.

jackfrost
Pro 
i deal with the problems of drink every night at work and see the tradgedy it leaves.....so may sad and awful things ....but there seems to ber no answer